I agree with Sexy in sari's argument. It is Ambrosia's opinion or perception about that auntiji's staring at her. It is just her assumption that auntiji stared at her because she was feeling less fortunate than herself. She might be staring at the writer merely in admiration for her ability/ energy to keep up with latest fashion and thinking about her own past glorious days. But she might not be the less fortunate one as the writer assumed. Who knows may be her bank balance is fatter than that of the writer's. We should not judge the people from their outer appearance. It is all about interest and priorities.

Anyway, I enjoyed reading this thread. The writer has very good skill to put her thoughts in the words. Keep it up.