For example, the girl who works at the front desk in my office is more glamorous than I am. She changes are hair highlights almost every month, her hand bags and shoes are up-to-date designer collections, etc. 

From her perspective, I maybe like that 'Aunti-ji' for her. But, in reality, I have gone through her age and done that. Of course, it is pleasurable for eyes to see good things around you, so we look at her and adore her. 

BUT  that doesn't mean I wish I want to be like her. Since my salary is three time higher than her, my work comes  with lots of responsibilities. So my PRIORITIES is to keep my job. 

I think your Aunti-ji is the same. I really appreciate the women in our country started to work hard to take care of the family sacrificing all their desires. 

BTW, another good reading.