well, as i have run thru this thread, i have concluded that sex is love?? certainly if halle berry or kristen dusnt or angelina julies,(for ladies, which ever guy you think is hot ) comes naked in front of you will you be able to resist.. in my opinion, cheating is not just having sex or sleeping with other women, cheating is when you are distant from your patner, when you dont talk abt things to ur partner, when you keep ur lonliness with urself, when you arent able to be open and free with him or her, that is called cheating..having sex is not cheating guys, when a guy/gal becomes lonely depressed, then only him/her will search for a comfort with other partner...so bottom line, if ur if ur are distant from each other for a while thats CHEATING.. and finally.. haha guys i am not married tho..so gals u all can email me..