If you're qualified, open-minded and decent enough, there are plenty of nice girls out there. The biggest issue is the filthy expectation of wishing that a bride were a virgin; Unsurprisingly enough that's been the biggest hindrance for Nepali men. Indians, it appears, don't seem to care about a girl's past as much as Nepalis do. Maybe because they don't have to put up with an acquaintance talking crap about a girl's past (the same acquaintances don't give a crap about the guy's past). Most Nepali men in general seem to be bothered with a woman's past, regardless of himself bedding multiple women, of various backgrounds (hookers from Thamel included). 

Further, most single Nepali men seem to try to live up to the expectations of their families - those of finding an asal, ramri buhari w/ caste, religion, and family background playing a crucial role. But that said, it'd be hypocritical if I denied the fact that I'm currently single only because I can't find someone who's capable of fulfilling my mother's demands.

Also, there's nothing wrong with a woman seeking an ambitious and career-oriented guy. Would it be fair if a guy were judged based on their preference for a woman's appearance? There's nothing wrong with a guy seeking a beautiful soulmate, right?

Thusly, if you're a well mannered guy with an open-mind, you shouldn't have trouble finding a decent girl. There are plenty of girls in mid, late 20s, and 30s - single, educated, and beautiful. There's no doubt in my mind that they'd rather get married to Nepali men, too. But when a bunch of Nepali men start labeling them as "used", how the f*** are they supposed to open themselves up? 


And lastly, users and usages of terms like "brandnew", "used" are not only cringeworthy and demeaning, but also extremely uncivilized. If you're gonna hang onto the notion that a girl in her mid 20s should've stayed a virgin, you were better off living in Nepal. And believe it or not, unless you went to some rural village, it's rare to find a virgin girl in her mid 20s.