@goddamn, you are absolutely right and I agreed to that. This post almost sounds like OP wants to portray the deceased in negative tone.

@Fiji, I sure hope you are joking; but know that this is not a joking matter. Smoking a joint and DWI aren't same!!! Drinking a glass of beer and driving while intoxicated aren't same. Driving while intoxicated is going on a killing rampage and I am not exaggerating stuff here. I know you have done it and your friends have done it, that doesn't make it right. If I met anybody who claims he has done it, I will punch the sucker right on their face. If you want to know why, go ask the family of thousands whose brother/sister/father/mother got killed by a drunk who was driving. Get that thing in your head, I am serious here.