It's not about sex. What is there in rubbing two bodies for gaining sense pleasure! I am not the slave of my senses; instead I control my senses. I just wanted to know how should I approach an American girl because I don't know how cross culture dating/relationship works. Attraction is the first criteria. I found that she is looking at me from moment to moment in my class. But I have no idea how should I start the 'very first conversation' and as they say first impression is last impression, so just needed some friendly advice.