Gham Pani I agree with you. I also want to have all the nepalese to enjoy the life as people do in rich counties. But again come to the reality, it doesnt seem possible even in hundred years. You should be aware of the neplai politicains. I personally never will force anybody to do fasting for me. But here there is no personal interest. I am talking about very real situation of a conditin of women in general Napli home (Please don't post somebody saying that "condiiton of women in my home is very good"). They are in amazingly bad situation. Even if I wish to change that situation I am not capable of doin that. The only point bothered me is that if somebody says women of nepal have rights to do this and that........hey guys come to the reality. We few are chating and wasting our on the internet is not going to do anything, its like netaji giving speach. My only point in all discussion is just dont think with your mind set in western culture. Think putting in yourself in the real situation. Look at the data given by UN in 1988. The situation is same even today. and will be same in 100 years. Jaaga jaaga nepali ho. Gender differentiated involvement in activities Tasks Female Male Agriculture x x Fuelwood collection xx x Water collection xx x Grass collection xx x Leaf fodder collection xx x Food processing xx x Cooking xx x Various domestic xx x xx/x = relative involvement Source: based on Kumar and Hotchkiss, 1988