gmteck2119, The only kinda girl you may find in sajha.com is SIS whom you don't want to get married I believe. A suggestion for you. Instead of finding a girl for marriage in sajha, try to keep in touch with Nepalese students (male and female) who go to the same college/ university you go. Just be their casual friend first, throw some parties in your/friend's home/apartment and invite them as just a get together of Nepalese community. You have to loose something to get something back. Don't make a impression like you are there for a girl hunt for marriage. Simply present yourself who you are and build up a positive image among girls. Talk to them gently and nicely but don't overact as a smart ass. Good communication among girls is first step to get closer. It will get them to know more about you. Please don't be shy and nervous like you are talking with a girl for the first time. A girls like confident guy who can take control of her. You have to lead the way and make a path for her.Once they feel comfortable to talk and ultimately hang out with you, pick a girl whom you like and take a initiative for the next step. I will let you know the next step when you are ready. Be patience boy...