http://www.news.com.au/breaking-news/racist-baa-baa-black-sheep-put-out-to-pasture/story-e6frfku0-1226012652386 It is not a myth. I brought it up to highlight the fact that moral appropriateness is even acknowledged at kid level. It is not banned everywhere simply because of the notion that kids cannot be racist. The fact remains that you cannot sing it like mary had a little lamb anymore. As I see it, why you should apologize is self explanatory. At the end of the day, you are doing it for yourself, not me. You are doing it for your family, not mine. As a human being, I thought it as my duty to object. My vacation was fine thanks. I have always distanced myself from the likes of Behoove etc and life is bliss. They say charity begins at home and so does respect. Someone who cannot respect his own will never respect others. It does not matter if Ojaswi is a girl or guy because we are talking about moral values here. I giver her benefit of doubt that she is a lady. when you are old and you reflect on your life and those simple things you could have to make the difference and you did not. I hope you do not have any regrets.