The way I see it 5 people need to apologize to the lady. If you gave thumbs up, you agreed with the labeling of this lady as a harlot. You can still redeem yourself by apologizing. It will not mean Ojaswi was right but it will mean that you are indeed a gentleman, with a good upbringing where such words were not taught by your parents at home and that you admit that your parents would not be proud of you for using such words to describe a woman. You can replace this word with the nepali equivalent to assess the real damage. Behoove and the people who gave thumbs up are all respectable, educated and intelligent people. So I request you to apologize. I have a strong feeling all 5 will apologize. I wonder who will be the first one.