Posted by: Cannabis May 23, 2013
Nepali girlfriend in US and Family
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One way to keep the balaincing family issues is to have a open communication.

You need to speak with your GF/wife in private that what your expectations are in any given context, and ask for her opionion. If you both are not on the same page on the given context, you genuninely need to make your case and request her to support your decision. Afterall, you both care about maintaining peace in family and live happily ever after; but in reality there is no such thing as happily everafter.  We comprimise....come to a middle ground that you both agree

With your parents, exact same rule applies. If they say/do something to your wife that you don't agree, then you need to speak up ( You are, I am sure, an obidentt son, but you also need to be a best freind to your wife) We are raised in a society that Parents are equal to Gods, in fact they are not. We all are humans and each of us deserved to be treated as one. 

Your parents need to realize that the happiness your wife/GF brings in your life is something they cannot replace. Your wife need to respect the fact that : the reason she is in so much love with you is beacue your parents did a good job of raising you. We are the product of how we are raised, and spouse need to understand and appreciate that fact.

Good luck !!!
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