think thrice before comitting that act, i agree with magorkhe1 , u should go for counselling , i think magorkhe is directly related for the divorce.did u greate a thread that brought this situatioon?If that so then u better be careful.
U can contact friends for help, inlaws and ppl who have gone through that kaluramm.

Want to add a bit kaluramm, once divorce is filled, both will spit the venom of each other, guys become abuser, beater, drunkyard, con, etc all the bad things, woman get more sympathy, freedom fighter, state support , support from friends, etc,
so better think before filing.ur life will be laid back again.its not like having sex in the beach cocktail