That's not good...Totally not good for the dude.Love can be as hallucinating as LSD and all; I know, but still you gotta keep your thoughts in good areas.The law of Karma states you gotta pay for your every misdeeds and it will surely bomerang back to you no matter what.30 freaking years is a loong time and that's also enclosed in four walls and its too late now, though he would have whole time in this earth for soul searching,play soccer,basketball,chess,watch movies,read many  books,keep himself healthy to start his second inning in life after an era--if he likes it.As they say example is the best way to learn,it's always sad to learn this way...Ma Hasda Timi Hase Po Maya..Timi Ruda Malai Dukhe Po Maya....Sangai Hasera Bache Po Maya...Marera Sidine Maya K Maya?