j_p :my gf was approved for asylum

furke: Unfortunately, you both have to be married on or before the date your gf had been approved for asylum

Stupida :As furke said - "NO"; you have to be married at the time of filing asylum

j_p:What will be the consequences if we file for the gc after we get married asap ?

can't you read the above statements MAN............

Time frame for GC process:
1) Duration of your spouse's greencard process (GC on Hand)
2)National VIsa Center (NVC) takes between 2.3 yrs to 2.6 yrs to visa available
3) Add 3 months for final NVC processing

Total = 1+2+3