Rethink,
I mostly agree what you said. Especially : "Some people have changed after having near death experience and some haven't. We will just have to wait and see."

And being called "paranoid with asinine sense of priority", I don't mind accepting such remarks. Not all people may think my view/I can be labelled with such adjectives. Afterall, most of the people are judgemental and form a perception of another person after reading their comments. The truth is that some people accept that they are judgemental others never accept it.