DC_Girl, By now, I only know 2 things you are looking in a guy. First, Visionary. Second, Gregarious. In addition to this I want to know, How do you define Happiness in your life? For instance, does it come only when you achieve your dream, does it exist all the time, or disappears with your failure. For me: The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. I am just asking you because you have opened your arms but still tightened your lips. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.