Gorkhali ji, I'm not trying to ignore nepali guys and go look for khaires...i wouldnt be whining about not finding nepali guys then in Sajha. And if you dont know where you're going up to this age, (whatever it is, since I guess most ppl chatting in this forum are beyond their teens), may be there's something wrong. Hell, i mean, you're more american than i thought i was. First, I had a preconcieved notion that when Nepalese come to the US, they come with a purpose. May be not. Yeah, I've seen a lot of native chics getting wasted. And guys too. But i guess not everyone wants to roam around in their little worlds of what to cook tonite and where to find chics/guys to hang out with. When you're busy with stuff and you take a break to look around you, you'll see the same ppl who are still within their small worlds of what to cook! Thats not me. Romanticated, its hard to like/dislike someone in 10 minutes- but if you want me to lay out my priorities- I want someone who thinks big; who doesnt get lost in small wonders. of course you hang out with ppl and have fun, but thats not the purpose. someone who stumbles over little things in life can never achieve anything big. looks, how he dresses, what he eats, whether he can lure girls in the bar is secondary. I might sound Nerdy, but hey, whatever you blabber about in this forum, that you want a COOL chic/guy, someone who brings you flowers, someone who is good in bed, someone who is outgoing, has a dashing personality- all that will boil down to chicken shit after you realize that you have to work harder to make living after marriage...