has anyone seen 'Life of Pi'. ? 
All these values and sentiments are there as long as one is leading a normal life.
Amidst crisis and hardships, every single one of us turn to become like 'Pi', for ex.
he had no choice other than savouring on 'Mahi Mahi' to survive. At first, he screamed
for his sin(being  vegetarian thats what he believed) but when it comes to your own
survival, you forget everything. If that tiger was not tiger but goat, Pi would have eaten
that too. It would have died out of hunger and he would have eaten it. Now, back to
period in present moment where life is running normally, all these matters are there
for us to vent upon our mere differences, don't we look like fools?  Anyway, we're all
pretenders and lets pretend we respect each others values and norms. We've been
pretending since years. If some group feel disregarded for doing certain things, lets
not do it in front of them, but in the context of state being declared as secular, that
other group don't really need to spike the issue unnecessarily.