Nagan, when you start leading a 'better' life and once you make advancements, you don't wish to go back to where you came back from, do you? I mean, imagine you were bullied in your previous and after transferring to a different school, you being told that you were doing just fine in your previous school as some other kid in some different school was bullied more harshly! 

I was talking in general points. Nobody would cherish the thoughts of being bombarded by a bunch of dumbasses during holi, against their will. 

In any case, I'll go on to say that given a choice, 90% of Nepali women would prefer living in the US as opposed to Nepal. Whilst some might disagree with the notion that Nepal is 'hell' for average women, I was doing it in comparison to the life they could lead in the US. 

Think of it this way, a villager in some rural district might be enjoying his life but once he gets employed by someone in a 'sahar' nearby, do you really think he'd cherish the thoughts of returning back? You're having a laugh if you think otherwise. Case in point, a majority of people who migrate to cities from villages choose to stay in cities because as human beings, we tend to strive for growth, progress and advancements, not to regress and take backward steps!