Hi folks, thank you so much for the help you guys provided on my last topic...life always has something for us to make decisions about and here's another one for me...I always like to get suggestions and then only make my final decision...as I don't have keen folks here I love the fact that Sajha fills that void..please help me make this decision..

Actually, we have been in a relationship for quite a long time and her parents are always asking her to get married..my family also likes her but the only thing they are asking is that I marry her only after Im done with my undergrad..at first it seemed like her family wont wait for that long..I still have 2 semesters left...but now they seems flexible..so if I go to Nepal this summer and get engaged then they would wait for another year for us to get married..but I got stuck at one point..

I was thinking that as soon as I get my bachelor degree in the May of 2014 I would go and get married to her..but then I found that I would have to apply for OPT at that time..and that I cannot travel while my application is pending..and my parents wont allow the marriage in between my studies..also my visa is expiring in August of 2014..can I go to Nepal and come back in a month and then only apply for OPT..would they let me enter at the POE? what should I do friends? Is there anyway I can have my OPT pending or even running and I could go to Nepal? Please help!

Sincerely, 
Nepali Babu