Unless you are in your mid thirties, dont have a baby. You might be getting pressured by your folks who want grandchildren, but wait for it. Enjoy your life and save some money before jumping for a kid. You might bw thinking that you will leave the kid with your parents to raise em. But why? Have a kid when you get here. At least there wont be a hassle of immigration. You can always go back to Nepal and then leave your kid with your parents.