Interesting post.  I agree with both snurp and rethink.  What I have learned so far is that CONFIDENCE is very important in life.  Indecisive = lack of confidence.  I was indecisive before as well.  I am changing myself slowly and steadily.  In my opinion, there is nothing called right decision or wrong decision.  You make a decision, and you should be willing to take consequences.  Another thing: Follow your heart.  Don't get bothered by noises.  Phalna la yesto bhancha..usto bhanchha... all bull crap.

We, Nepalese, spend a lot of time making sure that a decision is right or wrong.  That makes us undecisive.