Many of you seem to address the issue of whether its okay to have sex before marriage or not. Some have even justified no girl is left virgin anyomre so why not marry her.

Is virginity the only issues here? What you all should be debating is whether you all are brave and strong enough to digest the fact that the whole Nepal has seen her enjoying Khicha Man's lollypop. Also, ask yourself, what does the first thing that runs into your friends and families head when you introduce your wife to them. Right after you introduce her to them and look into their eyes...how can you stop yourself from thinking exactly what your friend is picturing about your wife.

Lets assume that you love her truely and do not care about her past  but what do you expect your parents or grandmothers to feel? Should you expect that it will not effect them either? Nepali culture is not an individualistic culture. When you marry someone, you do not just marry one person to another, you marry one family to another. There are so many things to consider. There is a huge difference between calling someone a girlfriend and hanging out with them than actually marrying and calling that person a husband or a wife.

Like someone said above, i have no problem with what they are doing but if i married a girl like that my parents will probably throw themselves out of a ten story building.