Give him some " benefit of doubt" for a while, if his character has sonething to do wid it, lay it on... Tell him straight up n give him chance to improve, we all do mistakes n ecerybody deserves a chance
Trust me you'd be better of compromising rather than looking for short term "sweet taste" ...eventually we all grow old n what matters is a true relationship n better understanding.
Make no mistAke, expecatations & desires fluctuate with times...we are human n we live in society ...we rely on social things that makes our living worth of living