Behoove daai I was about to complain as I read you sentence ".....I mean why can’t a Nepali act like one among others? Why does it always have to be about the antagonism, ego and quest to urbanize all the time?" kina ki I have faced and noticed this everytime even today..... tara tapai ko baki story padhey pachi aakha talpal bhayera aayo ani life is not about complaining its about enjoying this moment and cherishing the memories bhanya justo lagyo.... It was beautifully woven story daai. I am sorry for your loss, May shova antie rest in peace .