I bet whoever is talking about no sex before marriage has tried or had sex before marriage, there might be exceptions but most of the time it is true. And about going to brothels, one should have much money and desperate need to go there at young age. For example I am completely for sex before marriage, given it is consensual and romantic but I would never pay a dime for r****, forget about going there. If you look it in a way, it will only give you more time before making a long commitment.
And lastly about getting personal, I bet all can agree that bringing dad, mom, brothers, and sisters is not Nepalipan. Sadly, but truly only thing few people have learned after coming to America is cursing sisters and parents from pakis and dhotis. Peace out brothers, Nepalipan is about respecting others, especially women, and giving them the respect and love they need.