dayam you are so right i was going to write that if you hadn't ..... I'm sure any girls in this earth would have done the same damn thing... also keep in mind that nepali guys who go to clubs think( not generaliging of course just refering to the thread) grinding is Hot and mordenize but it's not like daym said I have seen so called " white chicks" done the same thing if they encounter numunas like discribed above......... hehe