Jalan Bro,

Your story resembles with my fren's story.  My fren had a gf in Nepal and he fell in love with a brazilian woman.  Now he is confused since he loves both woman.  It is very hard for him since he cannot break the heart of any woman.  I told him to tell the truth to both women and bear the consequences.  

It is easy to blame a guy but you never know when you land up in a f**ked up situation. That's why I never believe in long distance relationship.  Physical proximity is very important to build and nuture a relationship.  One can talk about ram sita lila but in real life such lila does not work.  My best wishes to you, bro.