Posted by: Sparty April 4, 2012
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33_Kumar,
I am not trying to make fun of you or discourage you but based on what you have written, I don't think your married life will run smoothly with that girl. The reason is because now you know that she is not virgin and your concept is that "उनिमा भएको खराबी त्यति नै हो". I feel that no matter what this will remain in your mind and bother you throughout your life, unless some miracle happens or some drastic change comes in your life. So, in my honest opinion, try finding another girl, and DO NOT ask anything about her past. I think (in your case) you will be more happy with the girl whose past you don't know than with the girl, who you know has lost her virginity.
As riddle said "virginity is not a matter of dignity, but just lack of opportunity", in today's world it is stupidity to look a lost virginity as "खराबी"
Your life will be far better with a girl who remains faithful to you despite her past than with a virgin girl (if you find one) who cheats you after marriage.
Just my 2 cents
Sparty
I am not trying to make fun of you or discourage you but based on what you have written, I don't think your married life will run smoothly with that girl. The reason is because now you know that she is not virgin and your concept is that "उनिमा भएको खराबी त्यति नै हो". I feel that no matter what this will remain in your mind and bother you throughout your life, unless some miracle happens or some drastic change comes in your life. So, in my honest opinion, try finding another girl, and DO NOT ask anything about her past. I think (in your case) you will be more happy with the girl whose past you don't know than with the girl, who you know has lost her virginity.
As riddle said "virginity is not a matter of dignity, but just lack of opportunity", in today's world it is stupidity to look a lost virginity as "खराबी"
Your life will be far better with a girl who remains faithful to you despite her past than with a virgin girl (if you find one) who cheats you after marriage.
Just my 2 cents
Sparty