I wish nobody gets into situation like this. But it happens everywhere, and i have known at least 5 couples in these situation. The best answer to this question can come from your husband. Be candid and ask him about the situation he is in and let him know your situation. It's not easy for everybody here in US. Like some of the people said try for student visa, this might be a solution for you to meet your husband. But this too depends on your study and people back home.
I wish you all happiness in your life...............