Whewwww,,,
Cool suggestions!!! Sounds like they work..
My first relationship (LOL aka love of life starting at highschool, which was love at first sight for me),,which lasted almost 7 years through pretty rough days, multiple on and off long distance years. I indulged myself in flood of affairs after that,,dating multiple girls at the same time,,also almost made it a ritual to visit clubs like every week..and bla bla bla.,,

I did manage to muster enough hostile feelings towards my LOL making myself believe the she was an  evil person..And after a few years of living in my world where i tried my best to make myself believe that i was a fool to think that she one indeed the one,,one email from her one day (with social networks these days  it looks like one can never really hide away) was enough to knock off my seemingly invulnerable personality that i built in those years,, And all of sudden it just felt like she was my LOL and it will stay that way forever,,no matter how i appear from outside. I will never be able to be near her physcially with her new circumstances,,

And amazingly now i dont hate her anymore,,no matter what was done to me..I pray for her happiness..Many relationships have come and gone between then,,But then only one that still matters is the one that taught me to live as if i was never hurt.

I am glad i can say it out aloud here..(sounding like a loser)

Anyways it's one big thing in life but it's not the only thing in life. One can survive still survive without a kidney

Now i dont have any problem moving in and out of relationships..