Posted by: rethink February 16, 2012
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Suicide is a weapon used by people who live by other people's standards. It is not a tool you use to escape your life, but a tool to escape your inability to live by other people's expectation.
The meaning of failure is abstract. Someone might feel their inability to get to the moon as failure while a begger in the street might consider it failure to earn a single rupees in one day. Similarly the meaning of success varies too but most important, the meaning of success or failure is not determined by you but it's determined by the society, family you live in.
You have to learn to live for yourself and find out what is important for you. You need to have the ability to spring back from perceived failures and to learn to cope with your success in your own way. Life is the most valuable thing on earth. Your own life is more valuable than the entire bank account of Bill Gates. Look at Steve Jobs, he had status, he had money, he had everything but he didn't have what was necessary for life. He didn't have health. So your life is the most valuable thing on earth and you are even considering suicide that is just wrong! Life is a series of ups and down and therein lies the beauty of the experience. Even the thought of suicide may simply be an experience of thought. An idle mind is a devil's workshop so the mind may sometimes go into the dark alley, and without correct direction, it may take a man to his doom but you are not going to stay there for too long because in posting here you have already determined yourself that you will not take that path.
Status h1, everything is important but not the end of the world. As long as you have your health, you can always spring back. There are hundreds of thousands of illegal immigrants in the US, so what if you have to join them. Life is about survival of the fittest and you can try to survive any which way you have to. You don't have to own the trump tower to be happy. You chose to be happy at being able to have some food on the table and a ceiling above your head.
Think about other people who are worse off than you. There are people who don't have any hands and legs who are begging to keep themselves alive. There are people who cannot eat. Your problem is not even close to their problem. You are fine. You can enjoy this precious gift of life. Don't curse the people who gave you this gift by even thinking of ending it.
Live Love Life
The meaning of failure is abstract. Someone might feel their inability to get to the moon as failure while a begger in the street might consider it failure to earn a single rupees in one day. Similarly the meaning of success varies too but most important, the meaning of success or failure is not determined by you but it's determined by the society, family you live in.
You have to learn to live for yourself and find out what is important for you. You need to have the ability to spring back from perceived failures and to learn to cope with your success in your own way. Life is the most valuable thing on earth. Your own life is more valuable than the entire bank account of Bill Gates. Look at Steve Jobs, he had status, he had money, he had everything but he didn't have what was necessary for life. He didn't have health. So your life is the most valuable thing on earth and you are even considering suicide that is just wrong! Life is a series of ups and down and therein lies the beauty of the experience. Even the thought of suicide may simply be an experience of thought. An idle mind is a devil's workshop so the mind may sometimes go into the dark alley, and without correct direction, it may take a man to his doom but you are not going to stay there for too long because in posting here you have already determined yourself that you will not take that path.
Status h1, everything is important but not the end of the world. As long as you have your health, you can always spring back. There are hundreds of thousands of illegal immigrants in the US, so what if you have to join them. Life is about survival of the fittest and you can try to survive any which way you have to. You don't have to own the trump tower to be happy. You chose to be happy at being able to have some food on the table and a ceiling above your head.
Think about other people who are worse off than you. There are people who don't have any hands and legs who are begging to keep themselves alive. There are people who cannot eat. Your problem is not even close to their problem. You are fine. You can enjoy this precious gift of life. Don't curse the people who gave you this gift by even thinking of ending it.
Live Love Life