oh no no no no no, ashu. he is not taking a holier-than-thou posture. methinks he is truly concerned about your welfare. oh yes. we all know that meditation is good for the body, mind and spirit. he probably thought that a lil meditation would do you good. but what he does not realize is that you must be really busy, so even if you wanted to meditate, you would not have time. and that is perfectly fine. no pressure... now, on to the main topic. if ppl have pretty lil asses that they want to flaunt, why feel insecure about it? i say, if you've got a pretty ass, you have an option to exercise that right. and if the ass is really pretty, believe me, the option is In-the-money. oh yea....big time. it's what economists call a positive externality - by flaunting your god-given assets, you gain gratification, but you also soothe the eyes of the onlookers. and when that happens, sparks fly out and that moment is a wonderfool moment...