one that got away. who is this guy who refers to everyone as his brother? it's very easy to spot someone who has pure intentions. they don't need to explain themselves!

Here is probably what that scenario looked like. A MUCH MORE REALISTIC ONE.

New guy in college, old guy thinking, "Here comes another namuna. I wonder what use he'll be to me. He probably knows very little about life here, I might as well try to make life a bit more easier for myself.".

New Guy (NG): "Hey another nepali! Cool. Hows it going? I'm looking for a place to stay and since we're already familiar with each other culture-wise, it might be easier for us to get along. Do you want to live together?"

Old Guy (OG): He looks pretty naive. I wonder what caste he is from. If he comes stays in my apartment and crashes on the sofa, then my rent will decrecease, especially since i am already splitting with my budi. He might even know how to cook food and I'll make him do the cleaning too. "Sure brother. I am here for you. You came all the way from Nepal and must not know anyone around here. I have an apartment already, but since you really need a place to stay, I don't mind letting you sleep in the living room. We can cook and clean and live happy."

NG - "Sounds good. Can you help with my luggage?"

..... after some days ...

No food in the apartment because OG is hoping NG will feel 'aftyaro' and buy the entire grocery. He uses his budi to make snide remarks about the food like "Aja ta ghar ma khana nai rehina cha hai?". 

So after coming home from library New Guy (NG) asks Old Guy (OG) - "Hey looks like we're out of food, wanna go grab some groceries?"

OG - I'm gonna make this mf buy grocery this month. I spent a good deal of money on cigs and alcohol so now dont have money left. "Oh my brother, grocery gonna be closed why not grab something from mcdonalds drive through which is just 10 minute walk from here."

NG - "Ok thats a great idea. Can I use your car man? It's really snowy out there and it'll be faster that way."

OG - Bastard wants my car. Who knows where he's gonna go with it. "Eh no worries my brother. I will drive you."

And the story continues. Let me paste from One That Got Away - 

OG - I drive couple of mile to get to his home and another 3 miles to McDonald's. I don't care about the homework that are due tomorrow, I don't care about the gas that I just WASTED, I don't care if my 1997 Camry breaks down at night in the middle of nowhere. I had a starving brother waiting on me and I had to help him. we reached McDonald's. He looks at all the items and chooses to eat something he can't afford to. But what was his Dai there for? To help him out, right?? So I pay whatever he was short thinking he understands how hard it is to save cash here, specially when you are a student and living in an rural university working 20 hrs a week and pay me back when I drop him off to his dorm. However, to my surprise he didn't offered me anything, heck he didnt even thanked me. anyway I am just happy I could help a needy guy. I hope he will some day buy me a drink in a vending machine!