I suppose it changes with the amount of time one spends in this country. My "American Dream" at this point (in no particular order) is a life where I make enough to afford a mortgage, raise nice kids, take that occasional vacation with the family, be able to visit Nepal on a fairly regular basis and do something to help people in disadvantage there.

At some point of my life, my "American Dream" was similar to yours, then I met corporate america, where time translates to money and $200,000 a year is at least a 70 hour work week, which I simply do not want. But to each its own!

Good Luck