Posted by: namit_thapa December 21, 2011
Situation: SEX n BF
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First of all I am very sorry to hear your story. Also there is nothing new I am putting here that
hadn't been said before. Having said so, now do what majority of us are suggesting here.

Move on with your life. Just Isolate yourself from him and don't contact him at all.
Don't call him, don't text him, don't receive his phone calls and  don't see him either. And slowly it will fade away and trust me on this. If you are still living in his apartment, leave that one as soon as you can.

The first thing you have to do is separte that "attachment" for him from yourself. Don't tell me its hard, I know its hard but its not impossible either. Just try to do it and you will be thankful to yourself later that you did at right time.

You will find someone a way better than him and at that time you will feel that "Feel" again.So don't worry about it now. Talk with your friends they are a great live savers. If you are not in contact with people for a while call them and say you just wanted to say "hello" and see how many people will be glad that you called. Do something that you are always intersted to do but couldn't able to do so far for whatever reason. This is the right time. You will find yourself a better person ever than before.


To answer your question,

No One deserves to be suffer in this world.If I would have been in that situation, I would have left him.


Don't grief about it anymore because its nott gone do anything better. Past is already gone and there is a very bright future looking for your ahead.



one small note. browse sajha chat if you get bored or feel alone. There are great guys,gals, entertainer, poets,musicians, singers all kind of people(serial,PIH,CG,footyfan,naam,dhwase,dallu,rahulvai,grace,mulmiz,nepal_united,sleeples just to name few). However there are  also some कामचोर 's and माहाअल्छी 's too....  .Best time to meet people is  office time(9 am to 5 pm)

and after 9 PM.

Good luck for you and May god bless you

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