astitwa team, I terribly feel sorry for that man. I don't see any wrong with what this woman is demanding either. They don't have anything like arguments or fights going on so far, thus the relationship is there but it's just the spice of life which is missing. The woman is terrified because what if she has to live life with no taste, the very essense of life. She's admitting they're nice, she's even admitting her husband is nice but the core issue is she just needs divorse. We all know what does this mean right? 

I think she'll hurt that man more if she starts to discuss this issue more in front of others. Then again, she can't do much if her husband is not working with her. And, if the man is holding her for his own reasons, he should let her go. If he doesn't let her go, he'll be responsible for all the shame and humiliations that will be brought in.

This lady should calmly handle the situation and talk to her husband and discuss about divorce.