Cublas:
*Normalcy : What normal people/society around you think
I respect how you want to live. I used sharp word to remind you the things that pinch your parents heas enery moment ans tha is reality what normal people think. And i know how parents feel when their son declares " i m gay.. " . I just want to stress you Homosexuality is nor normal , its obvious abnormal. But you can hide this disease without hurting your parents. I just want to say we have to compromise a lot  and you have do same. telling your parents " I like man to live with" and i do not like girl"  - big difference although it is same for u.  

For me i can imagine having x with man ( i can change mind) , u can change mind too. If u r more progressive about sexual right , u have very limited space in the world live as normal life. Ihave too many disease too, but hiding is best option for society.

In previous , i wanted to say ( but type fkd) " thinking about yourself is selfisness, u have to compromise for your parents happyness anf feelings too."