Bad Boy,

PAAKHE is a degratory term....its like "NIggers"....that why the word itself is not appropriate.....other than that, people are shaped by the opportunities they get and the environment they are in....while you may be fortunate than others, its very dumb to judge someone based upon what family they were born in.....I was lucky that my parents were well off and I am also very grateful that I went to a school where you had richest and poorest studying together....if everyone had same opportunity, I don't think anyone would be a either pakhe or sahariya......

if you really want to grow up and be more mature, its okay to introduce yourself to one of these "PAKHE" u meet at a party and get to know him.....you can even try to teach him some common norms after you get to know him well.....

Remember, at the formal dinner  with your companies executives, you are the "PAKHE" who might rest arm on dinner table, uses fork to put butter on dinner roll or eats soup with your desert spoon......and I say that's OKAY as long as you are polite and humble and willing to learn norms as you experience them......