footyfan dai, thanx for starting such a nice discussion. I hope you get married soon...but dont try too hard though!! It looks like a common problem mostly with Nepalese abroad....you really dont have ny option beside going thru that krazy weird idea of geetin arranged unless yu stay in some places that has considerable Nepalese population. I have seen so many people I knew going back home, getting married....and if they couldn't brought 'em ova here in time....then thats the point it gets real krazzy.....gawd they skype like all nite myan....seriously.!!