Posted by: BannedUser October 2, 2011
Dilemma
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 Alece, priorities were different back then. 

Jangali, kati rag hanira ho? 

Quagmire, I think you nailed it. Us,men definitely have a massive upperhand. A "bigreko" Nepali guy finding a decent girl isn't that difficult but a "bigreko" Nepali girl finding a decent guy unless she's duping him is a tough ask. That's why I advise my own female friends to be extremely cautious. I've got a buddy in Sunnyvale area. So if I were to visit him sometime, I'll give you a buzz. 

Nepali_American, I think my nobel intentions  are somewhat misunderstood. I'm not in any rush but you know, considering how one of my cousins (a DV winner) didn't get married until he became a US citizen is a decent lesson to me. Also, I've got a friend who's in a relationship with a married woman whose husband lives in the US. Long-distance is okay but intercontinental relationship is a big no no. I mean, visiting your gf/wife once every 12-36 months is really torturous. Further, if I were to get married at this very moment, my newly wed girl will not be with me until 2015 or so (based on current visa processing timeline for GC holders). Ani aba ahile herera 2-3 years ma bihe garne ra 2-3 barsa pachi kura garnu ma ali farak cha ni.  Also, like Quagmire said, it does appear that a majority of good ones are already taken. I wish more married people came forward and shared their stories as in whether they got married while studying over here together, or they got married but got to live together only after either of the spouses' visa petition got approved after a few years. 

And Violet, are you mocking me too now? 
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