1 Honest suggestion. 

If you're a guy/girl when you're around 22-23, only date someone that you see good future with. Quite a number of my female friends have turned into "budhi kanyas" because they messed it up by making poor decisions. Its all upto an individual but back in college, this girl (a really good friend of mine) was always obsessed with a guy's looks over his background (family, decency, IQ level, other habits) and was dating this guy (live-in relationship) for almost 2-3 years. They had great fun together and were like the perfect match (looks wise). The guy was dashing, the girl was a hottie. 

Things didn't go well because the guy was also a jackass. The girl was smart, too but not so smart. She's already made a career in the City that she lives in and is pretty popular in the same city. Also, during their relationship, they were notoriously having physical encouters like in cars, restrooms of the clubs etc and now that they've broken up, no guy wants her. The guy, he's still living it up. He's still good looking and he continuously finds chicks who're wooed by his looks. When it comes to settling down, he'll find a chick without any fuss as he's already spent 3-5 years in the US (idiots in Nepal think that as some sort of achievement, too) despite him being a complete jackass who's yet to complete his AA. 

I know all this because I'm really good friends with her. She was a babe with a wild side, pretty smart, great looking but somewhat foolish. 

I guess youngins could take lessons too. Look for quality, not appearance only. If you're a girl in mid 20s with a 'dark' history, what you're gonna have to endure won't be so pleasant thanks to the way Nepalese perceive about women.  

Footyfan, I live in Fremont myself. Hit me up, lets grab a beer sometime. Send me ur number.