Kt, everybody has the past. live in the present, its a gift thats why its called present. I will give you one funny example.
One of my fren had a american fren ( he tells gf) but american gl only tells he is fren. then wht they went for ghumgham and that guy was a chaloo, he directly puts his mouth in her mouth.

She screamed and shouted, WTH THE [Disallowed String for - bad word], YOU NEPALESE ARE ALL LIKE THIS, WHEN YOU SEE GL< U HV ONLY DICK HEAD.
He came home with bloodred faced
Now that guy is the most frenly and take all gl as a fren and sis, and he is the nicest guy now, that gl also forgot and she is the best fren eva.
Forget past, live in present.
CHAU