C'mon guys, you guys are talking about Nepal like it is a hell place to be in or live in. Yes, I do agree that infrastructure is bad, government system is bad, medical system is bad, inflation is high but then how do you explain all the people who live there still being content with what they have? I have seen my friend's who have returned back for years now aren't complaining at all, yes maybe few times they have been frustrated about the system not working but then again once you are in your house it's heaven. The way i see, it is what works for you, if your family is not  too well off and might be struggling  in that case it's better for you to be abroad and support your family, if you are in the second class household I think it's whatever makes you content and that is different in each and everybody's definition. Yes, after living abroad independently for a long time, going back to your house and having to live under your parent's roof in their terms might be tough, but again being content with that depends on person to person.

Sorry my logic is scattered as you can see and I am struggling with this subject and have mixed feelings about it as with many of you here I'm sure.
Having said that, it is always wise to have a fall back option, a way for you to get outta there if things get really out of hand.