Saami - well said, I couldn't have said it better. As a US returnee and a frequent "bhatti" visitor, I completely agree with everything you said.

I am sure there are going to be people who are going to say "I have a plan" or "I have a good job/business idea" or "I recently spent a summer in Nepal so I am well prepared and know what I am getting myself into" or "so and so returned and is doing well" or "I love my country and want to contribute." To all these people all I have to say is good luck and पशुपती नाथ ले तपाईं हरु लाई सत्बुद्धी दिउन