"Gayness" is relative to the culture. If so to say, in Nepal people (guys) sit on bike (motorcycle aka bhatbhate) on pillion driven by another guy, so are they all gay?? If yes then all our dads, uncles and friends must be gays.

Well it's a matter of culture and sometimes it just needs some explanation to some white guy over here that gays are rare in nepali culture,,and that it's full of "bokas"