Posted by: pire June 20, 2011
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Here is Dangol's story:
1. म पहिला धेरै समय इन्डिया, इटली र लिबिया बसेँ
Basically, it seems, his wife--a merely 4-class pass wife-- raised the two daughters, and didn't have much of emotional attachment with the husband.
This is a story of many men who have left Nepal for work and I sympathize with Dangol, but sadly, Dangol didn't also have much of a time to develop emotional relationship with his wife.
2. Dangol says
"म हरेक बिहान ९ बजे ग्यारेज पुग्छु । दिउँसो खाना खान एकचोटि घर जान्छु । त्यसपछि फेरि ग्यारेजमै व्यस्त हुन्छु । कामदार छन्, उनीहरूलाई अह्राउने, सिकाउने, गाडी खरिद, बिक्री गर्ने काममै भ्याइनभ्याइ हुन्छ मलाई । राति ८ बजेतिर मात्र घर फर्किन्छु । "
Yes, Dangol dai, this is where you should have asked yourself, where was your married life?
It seems he never cared about his wife. The wife was there just to warm the bed. I bet she had dreams of hanging out, eating out etc etc.
3.बुटिक राम्रै चलिरहेको थियो .
So, basically, his wife was not stay-at-home type mom. She was a business woman who had made money.
I sympathize with Dangol. But here is sad part. His life was about money, money, money. He worked in dirt, while his wife worked in boutique of Kopundol, and dealt in beauty. Bhuvan KC offered her a romantic alternative.
In fact, even now, Dangol is talking about money. What can you say?
1. म पहिला धेरै समय इन्डिया, इटली र लिबिया बसेँ
Basically, it seems, his wife--a merely 4-class pass wife-- raised the two daughters, and didn't have much of emotional attachment with the husband.
This is a story of many men who have left Nepal for work and I sympathize with Dangol, but sadly, Dangol didn't also have much of a time to develop emotional relationship with his wife.
2. Dangol says
"म हरेक बिहान ९ बजे ग्यारेज पुग्छु । दिउँसो खाना खान एकचोटि घर जान्छु । त्यसपछि फेरि ग्यारेजमै व्यस्त हुन्छु । कामदार छन्, उनीहरूलाई अह्राउने, सिकाउने, गाडी खरिद, बिक्री गर्ने काममै भ्याइनभ्याइ हुन्छ मलाई । राति ८ बजेतिर मात्र घर फर्किन्छु । "
Yes, Dangol dai, this is where you should have asked yourself, where was your married life?
It seems he never cared about his wife. The wife was there just to warm the bed. I bet she had dreams of hanging out, eating out etc etc.
3.बुटिक राम्रै चलिरहेको थियो .
So, basically, his wife was not stay-at-home type mom. She was a business woman who had made money.
I sympathize with Dangol. But here is sad part. His life was about money, money, money. He worked in dirt, while his wife worked in boutique of Kopundol, and dealt in beauty. Bhuvan KC offered her a romantic alternative.
In fact, even now, Dangol is talking about money. What can you say?