its not only poor parents ,i know a person who has 13 houses in Kathmandu and he ask money to his son every month.He scolds like pig if his son says he doesnot have money.I have seen some Parents and siblings are like parasite.They just want to live off with their son/siblings income.Just other day I had one person I know complaining how his family is black mailing him to buy 2 motor bikes for his two brothers.He told me both want pulsar bike which cost more than 5000 for 2 and his parents also asked to pay fee for his sister studies in UK .Teti garna na sake ghar ma phone na gaarnu .He almost cried.

There are thousand stories like yours , you are not the only one going thru this.Having said that I have a different story.

While I was a studnet my parents asked me money once,they were desperate because my father had to close all the family business and they were struggling, I was only working 1days a week at the time so didnot have enogh money to feed myself so obvoiusly I couldnot send money.I just said I will see what I can do, they never follow up with me and i didnot not send the money.

2 years later they visited me  and they said  ohhh here yesto garo rahechaa hami le tyaha basera ke ke na hola bidesh bhaneko bhanthanthau.

Anyway now my mother passed away, this thing somtimes haunt me.I sometime think that I should have left the school , work and should have send the money cause that was the only time my mother asked for me for money and I couldnot do anything.To this day I regret  and I am sure I will regret this all my life.