if someone needs to feel ashamed then it's you who needs to come to sajha and hurl baseless philosophy on others just to feel important as mental mastrubation . before pressing me with false accusations, Where the fk did i say i give gurantee that this relationship won't work. I do wish him and all others in the world to find their soul mates, all i wanted to say was tell him to make a wise decision and marry the girl who loves him so much. Green card , citizenship etc etc are just icing on the cake for him since the girl who wants to marry happen to be a U.S citizen and he happens to be in F1 status.