Being Gay is not a choice its what they born as, If he doesn't have feeling for a girls its not his choice.

N guys he is talking seriously about this issues, I thought sajha was the best place to put your problems/feeling and get a genuine suggestion. But lately i think it has been covered by cockroaches who are bored n don't have anything better to do then make fun of other people.

Visible101 is looking for a genuine suggestion Guys WTF u  making fun of him. he could be you or your family members ..will you make a fun of him shame on you all .

Visible i understand your problem its not easy  in your case ..when u have to convience your family, relatives etc. but eventually if they love you they will accept u for who ur. trust me there are plenty of gays/lesbian in nepalese society now..some might hide themselves due to the fear.
but lately lot of them had come out and admitted that they are gay/lesbian.society is changing they are more acceptable.
So be who you are n what you are..do what you feel is best for you makes you happy.

all the best.